The first ninety days are the ones that break you.
The First 90
Is the book we wish someone had handed us.
The papers came. The house went quiet. His side of the closet, empty. You keep telling yourself you'll figure this out alone, the way you've figured out everything else. Not this. Not this time.
The First 90 is written for the man standing exactly where you are. Page by page through the hardest ninety days, by divorced fathers who lived them. Not theory. Not a clinician's framework. What we learned the hard way, and what we'd give anything to have known on day one.
Three divorced dads wrote it. No coaches. No gurus. And you don't read it alone. It comes with four months inside The Forge, the closed brotherhood where the men who wrote it still show up every day.
Jeremy — Separated 2.5 years before divorce. Elliot — One year divorced. 50/50 custody with a 13-year-old. Michael — Two years divorced. Three young kids.
We lived this. We are still living it. That is the only credential that matters.
THE STARTER BUNDLE
The First 90 (ebook) — $29.99 value Four months in The Forge (our brotherhood community) — $79.96 value Daily Bond Boosts (while you are a member) — included
Total value: $109.95
Your price today: $14.99 You save $94.96.
Founder pricing through September 30, 2026. 30-day money-back guarantee.
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The custody exchange that destroyed you. The empty house after the kids leave. The contacts list with no one to call. The friends who stopped texting back. The first holiday alone.
We have all been there. Some of us are still there. None of us are there alone.
Five books. One journey. The men who wrote them are with you in The Forge.
Before the Storm Hits
For the man who sees it coming. And the lessons every divorced dad wishes he had learned sooner.
The First 90
For the ninety days after the bomb drops.
The Long Middle
Releasing July 1, 2026
For the grind from month four through year two.
Now What
Releasing August 1, 2026
For the man who is past the decree and asking what comes next.
The Decree Decoder
Releasing September 1, 2026
The legal piece. Plain English.
The First 90 or Before the Storm Hits can be in the Starter Bundle. The others come as the series releases.
Three divorced fathers at a Sunday football game. None of us were saying anything.
Jeremy. Elliot. Michael. Three divorced dads. We had known each other for years through our boys.
Jeremy and Elliot sat together at every game for two years. Jeremy was separated the entire time and never said a word. Elliot was going through it and never said a word back. Michael and Elliot had been in a couples group together while both marriages were dying. None of us knew about the others.
One Sunday, someone finally opened up. Then another. Then the third.
And the question we all had was the same. How many other men are sitting next to each other right now, both suffering, both silent. At games. At work. At church. In line at the school pickup.
We built Brothers Bond because the answer is too many.
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How Brothers Bond Compares
Alternative
Cost
How often
Who
Built for divorced dads?
Your divorce attorney
$400-$600 per billable hour
Whenever you can afford to dial
Attorney
No. Built for the case, not the man.
Weekly Therapy
$200-$300 per session
Once per week
Licensed Therapist
No. Built for everyone
Divorce Coach
$2,000-$5,000 program
12 sessions then over
Professional Coach
Sometimes
Faith-based recovery groups
$20 one time
Once per week for 13 weeks
Volunteers
No
Public Peer Groups Online
$30-$50 per month
Weekly video calls
Peer-Led
No
Reddit & Public Forums
Free
24/7
Anonymous Strangers
No
BROTHERS BOND STARTER BUNDLE
$14.99 Once
24/7
Three divorced fathers and the brothers in The Forge
YES
Built only for this.
We do not compete with therapy. We are the brothers most men do not have. We are also the brother your attorney cannot be. He works the case. We work the man.
Over $100 value for $14.99
The Brothers Bond Starter Bundle. Four months. One price. Everything you need for the worst window.
Built for the first ninety days, the first six months, or wherever inside the first year you happen to be. Take what works
The Forge. The closed Brothers Bond community of divorced and separating men. Not Facebook. Not Reddit. Not a public group. Closed to search. What is shared here stays here. Real names. Real relationships. Men who have done this and are still doing it.
The First 90. The book on what we learned and what we wished we had in the early stages of a divorce. Ninety days, page by page, written by the men in The Forge. Digital edition, yours to keep, on your devices the moment you sign up.
What you Get
Four months in The Forge ($19.99 per month)
The First 90
Total Value
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Just $14.99 for the book and four months community membership. Over a hundred dollar value.
We are for you if
You are separated, actively divorcing, or recently divorced. You feel the isolation and have nowhere to put it down. You need daily support, not once a week. You want guidance from men who have been there. You are tired of suffering in silence. You want to become the dad your kids will remember. You are ready to do the work.
We are not for you if
You are looking for a magic fix. There is not one. You want to vent and stay bitter. We are moving forward. You are not willing to show up for other men. You expect the founders to fix you. We give you the tools. You do the work. You are not ready to be honest with other men. You think you can do this alone.
If you need a therapist, we will help you find one. If you need a lawyer, we will tell you what to ask. If you need a brother, we are here.
Meet the Founders
Michael (39)
The Veteran
Nearly two years divorced, three young kids. Leads conversations on high-conflict co-parenting, and sustained recovery.
High-conflict co-parenting strategies
Navigating fatherhood with children
Why recovery doesn’t end at year one
Elliot (43)
The Rebuilding Father
One year divorced, 50/50 custody with a 13-year-old. Leads calls about custody navigation, routines, and moving forward after divorce.
50/50 custody navigation
Building routines that work
Moving forward after a difficult divorce
Jeremy (56)
The Silent Sufferer
Two and a half years separated before divorce, four kids, former Emmy-winning reporter. Leads conversations on identity and silence.
Cost of suffering in silence
Every-other-weekend custody reality
Rebuilding identity after a long marriage
These aren’t professional coaches reading from a script. These are divorced dads living this right now.
Divorced men are nearly twice as likely to die prematurely than married men.
That is not motivation. That is a medical fact.
Chronic loneliness raises mortality risk the same as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. 29% increase in heart disease. 32% increase in stroke.
Three of us almost became that statistic. So we built this.
"I had not told anyone what was actually happening. The first time I posted I cried at my kitchen table. Three guys responded inside an hour."
Mark, Houston.
"Bond Boosts hit my phone at 6:45am every morning. Some days that text is the only thing that gets me out of bed."
Daniel, Austin.
"The First 90 told me the truth nobody else would. It also told me what to do next."
Tom, Denver.
"I do not know where I would be without these guys. I do know it would not be a good place."
John, Boston.
Step 1. You click the button and complete Stripe checkout for $14.99. Secure. Three minutes.
Step 2. Instant access to The Forge. A welcome message from a founder is in your inbox.
Step 3. Your first Bond Boost lands tomorrow morning.
Step 4. The First 90 is in your library. Read it on your own time.
30 days. Full refund. No questions.
Join the Starter Bundle today. If after thirty days you do not feel like you have more support than you started with, that you have connected with men who actually understand, that the daily community and the book were worth every dollar, email us.
We refund you. No questions. No hoops.
You have nothing to lose except the silence.
Some men want the chapter for tonight.
Some want the whole map.
The Starter Bundle is built for the first ninety days. If you want the entire road, we built that too.
The Full Series Bundle: $149
All five books as they release. One year inside The Forge. Daily Bond Boosts. Priority access to future programs.
Storm coming. Storm hitting. The long middle. What comes next. The legal piece.
This is for the man who is done improvising.
Your Questions Answered
Comprehensive FAQ addressing objections, logistics, privacy, and support contact. If you have more questions, email [email protected].
The Starter Bundle costs less than one hour with my attorney. Is that real?
Yes. Most divorce attorneys run $400 to $600 a billable hour and many run higher. Four months of Brothers Bond plus the book costs $14.99. Less than one hour at the average attorney rate. Your attorney builds the case. We build you back. Both matter. Only one of them costs four hundred dollars an hour.
Why is it only $14.99? What is the catch?
No catch. The Forge normally runs $19.99 a month and The First 90 normally sells at $29.99. Stack those up and you get $109.95 in value. We price the Starter Bundle at $14.99 because we know the divorced dad reading this page has just had legal fees take a bite and is wary of another monthly. Get in for less than the price of one Forge month. Stay if it helps. Leave in thirty days for a full refund if it does not.
Do Jeremy, Elliot, and Michael actually participate in The Forge?
Every single day. They lead the weekly call, respond to posts, and share what is happening in their own lives right now. This is not a build-it-and-leave situation. They are in it with you.
Is this therapy?
No. This is peer brotherhood led by men who have been through divorce. Many members also see therapists. We are not a replacement for clinical care. We are the men in your corner that most divorced fathers never get.
I am not good at talking about feelings. Will this work for me?
None of us are. You can read and lurk for as long as you need. Post when you are ready. Men bond shoulder to shoulder, not face to face. No one in The Forge is going to make you perform vulnerability.
My situation is complicated. Will these guys understand?
Between the three founders we have every variation of custody, conflict, and timing. So do the men in The Forge. Whatever your situation looks like, someone has been close to it.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. No contracts. Cancel anytime in two clicks. You keep what you already have from the book.
Why does the price go up after September 30, 2026?
Founder pricing locks the rate while Jeremy, Elliot, and Michael can still personally stay active in The Forge every day. When founder pricing closes, the price reflects the expanded operation. If you join now, you get the founder-pricing rate.
What about my ex finding out I am here?
The Forge is a closed community. What is shared here stays here. Many members have exes who have no idea. And seeking support makes you stronger in custody matters, not weaker. Courts notice when a father is taking his own mental and physical health seriously.
I am older. Will this work for someone in their 50s or 60s?
Yes. The men inside The Forge range from a few weeks separated to a few years past the decree, and from a few years older than thirty to a few years past sixty. The pain of isolation is the same at every age. The brotherhood scales.
I am newly separated. Is it too early?
No. The earlier you start, the less time you spend rebuilding alone. We have men who joined inside the first month and men who joined three years past the decree. The Starter Bundle was built for the first window, but it works in every window.
What if I genuinely cannot afford the $14.99 right now?
Email [email protected]. We have a small number of scholarship spots reserved for men in real financial trouble. The founders know what broke feels like. Money should not be the thing that keeps you from the brotherhood.
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Silence costs more than the call
-The founders
Founder pricing closes September 30, 2026.
After September 30, the Starter Bundle price goes up.
The price you see today is locked for every man who is inside the door before that date.
Jeremy, Elliot, and Michael are in The Forge every day. They can do that while founder pricing is still on. After September 30, the operation gets bigger and that piece changes.
For less than what you are already paying your attorney for one billable MINUTE, you get four months of the brotherhood most divorced men never find.
If you are reading this, you probably need it. We were you. Welcome.
There is more coming after this. We will tell you about it once you are in.
3 Founders | 5 Books | Daily Bond Boosts | $14.99 Each
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